{"id":25,"date":"2013-04-18T12:49:49","date_gmt":"2013-04-18T16:49:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ramapo.edu\/hr\/?page_id=25"},"modified":"2017-10-03T08:02:16","modified_gmt":"2017-10-03T12:02:16","slug":"supervisors-tool-box","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.ramapo.edu\/poerd\/supervisors-tool-box\/","title":{"rendered":"Supervisor’s Tool Box For Dealing With Chemically Dependent Employees"},"content":{"rendered":"
Troubled employees beget troubled supervisors.<\/p>\n
It is clear that each chemically dependent employee begets at least one troubled supervisor.<\/p>\n
These employees have an uncanny knack for manipulating the feelings of supervisors. A favorite ploy is the “whipped child” syndrome characterized by the “hang dog” look and the “I can’t do anything right” verbalizations. Almost invariably these behaviors will tug at parental heartstrings and suddenly supervisors find themselves comforting and supporting the employee rather than confronting them. At other times, outbursts of righteous indignation by employees frighten supervisors and cause them to back off.<\/p>\n
Chemically dependent and troubled employees have a great deal of experience at playing these games. Without an understanding of what’s going on, supervisors don’t stand a chance.<\/p>\n
The most important feelings which the supervisor will have (which closely parallel those of the substance abuser) are:<\/p>\n
Anger – <\/strong>Triggered by broken promises, poor work performance and absenteeism. Guilt – <\/strong>Supervisors feel guilty. The guilt is mirrored in thoughts like, “What have I done wrong?” “Why can’t I handle the situation?” “It was wrong to lose my temper.” “Why didn’t I say something!”<\/p>\n The guilt leads to feelings of inadequacy. “I’m a poor supervisor, etc.” When we feel inadequate to handle a situation, we will tend to avoid dealing with it.<\/p>\n Fear – <\/strong>Supervisors are often fearful of getting into discussions about employee problems which they tend to view as highly personal. Some may fear criticism in return for some real or imagined failing. Perhaps, in some cases, the supervisor fears criticism of his\/her own drinking behavior.<\/p>\n Ego Involvement (Co-Dependency) – <\/strong>Another strong psychological factor in some cases is ego involvement between supervisors and employees. This is usually the case where they have been together for a long time. The supervisor often feels that he has molded his employee in his own image. His employee’s success and failure become his success and failure.<\/p>\n Feel comfortable in your role as a supervisor who keys in on job performance. The troubled employee is one whose work record, once satisfactory, has begun to show signs of serious deterioration. This deterioration may show itself in increased absences, increasing use of sick leave, lateness, decreasing or inadequate productivity or growing difficulties with fellow employees.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n Establish<\/strong> \u2013 levels of work performance you expect.<\/p>\n Record<\/strong> \u2013 all absenteeism, poor job performance, etc.<\/p>\n Be Consistent<\/strong> \u2013 don’t tolerate more with one employee than you would with another.<\/p>\n Don’t be an Armchair Diagnostician<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Base the confrontation on Job Performance<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Be Firm<\/strong> \u2013 but tell him\/her you are there to help. Try to gain a trustful relationship.<\/p>\n Be Honest<\/strong> \u2013 don’t hedge, speak with authority.<\/p>\n Be Ready<\/strong> \u2013 to cope with the employee’s resistance, defensiveness and even hostility.<\/p>\n Accept No Excuses<\/strong> for failure.<\/p>\n Try to Get Him\/Her To Acknowledge<\/strong> the problem.<\/p>\n Set Up A Plan For Improvement<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Don’t make Value Judgements<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Don’t Moralize.<\/strong><\/p>\n Never ask Why<\/strong> do you do this or that, or why do you drink so much, etc.<\/p>\n If the employee says he\/she is “Sick”<\/strong> or makes other excuses, let him\/her know that there is no excuse for prolonged impaired performance.<\/p>\n Don’t let him\/her play you against higher management and\/or the Union, No Union Ever Praised Poor Job Performance<\/strong>.<\/p>\n Get a Commitment<\/strong> from him\/her and monitor it.<\/p>\n Don’t Make Idle Disciplinary Threats.<\/strong><\/p>\n When Confronting<\/strong> a problem drinker be specific about the behavior\/poor job performance.<\/p>\n Remember<\/strong> \u2013 take the responsibility to intervene. Don’t be afraid to interfere or get involved. You have a legitimate right to interfere when his\/her behavior is interfering with job performance. Remember, it is highly probable that a troubled employee’s performance will improve if her-she is confronted constructively and consistently. It is a fact that he\/she may get worse if he\/she is ignored or just warned occasionally.<\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n
\nThere is also self-directed anger at his inability to change his\/her employee.<\/p>\n